For most of my life, I knew I wasn’t straight, but wasn’t entirely sure where I fell on the queer spectrum. I now identify as a panromantic asexual – and it took me a long time to figure that out, in part due to a fundamental misunderstanding of what asexuality actually is.
Here are some of my writings and secondary resources.
There are a lot of myths and misunderstandings about asexuality. Read about some of those here.
On this page, I delve more into asexuality, attraction, and arousal, including a discussion on asexuality and kink.
The Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) has both information and a forum to connect with other ace folks.
The Asexuality Archive does not appear to have been updated since 2022, but has quite a bit of information.